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The Empathy Spectrum
Tyler defines empathy as putting your arm around someone and walking with them at their pace. The spectrum runs from one extreme to the other.
How it works
- 1One end: the doormat, the people pleaser who lets everyone walk over them.
- 2Other end: the leader who walks over everyone else.
- 3The healthy place is in the middle, where the relationship is reciprocal.
- 4His rule of thumb: the best partnerships are ones where each person feels like they give 55 percent.
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